My mother was a brilliant and active person. She loved Sudoku and playing poker. She had a burst of powerful and contagious laughter that pulled you into her world. In her last year of life, she struggled with Parkinson's disease, and there were moments when her brain was not as sharp. We brought her cards to play with and puzzles to keep her active. Sometimes, she would just move the cards without any reason, and other times, you would see her sharpness return as she engaged in a game of solitaire. She would smile as she would place the cards in order. That brilliant smile reminded me of that creative person who would find ways to express her ideas and interest.
Too often, I hear educators ask, "How do you connect loose parts to standards?" I often see that standards have taken over children's ability to create, design, and innovate. There are many educational toy stores selling items by making connections to standards. Educators spend too much time setting activities to observe and record that the children meet the required learning criteria to please parents and administrators. We have basically reduced the power of childhood to a few measurements. Furthermore, when we look at the dictionary definition of standards, we find that when the term is used as an adjective, it means; "used or accepted as normal or average." I fail to see how we want children to meet this limiting definition.
As I read multiple social media posts asking this question, my initial reaction was to gather various resources and share them with people. However, as I am learning to step back and question my own assumptions and responses, I decided to further ponder the question. My answer may surprise you.
The first entry in a series of blogs about Play and Ethics
The recent events we have witnessed and experienced these past few years have raised a concern about forming the ethical identities of young children. We continuously talk about teaching children what is right and wrong, but we fail to define it for ourselves. We set confusing rules that children tend to break because they don't understand them or agree with them. As adults, we have opinions that are cemented on our beliefs and experiences, and we fail to question them or vet them through research and theory. These opinions impact our views and perspectives about what children need or don't need to do.
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